Post by Midnight Butterfly on Sept 3, 2009 18:17:23 GMT -5
Hi guys. I wasn't going to post this at first but it seems like it may actually be a good idea to do so.
Okay, so where do I start.
As all of you probably know, I am gay, although I'm still hiding in that dark little closet But thats not the problem.
A couple of close friends know that I am gay but thats about it.
Here are the things tha have really been bothering me and I would love some advice about:
1. My friends have been noticing lately that it has been LONG time since I have been with a girl. They keep trying to get me set up with girls and keep making jokes about how long it has been that I have been with one.
I keep telling them that its because I havn't met the right girl for me but they have heard that excuse too often.
I dont feel as though I can tell them that I am gay yet because Im not ready for that, I am happy with just a few people knowing at the moment.
So one problem is that I dont know what to tell my friends, as for them it would seem pretty weird that I havnt been interested in girls for years.
2. I really like a guy, problem is he is straight. It seems like every guy that I fall for is straight. I know that this will keep happening meaning that I will NEVER have a relationship.
The worst thing about me liking this guy is that my friend really likes him too and she is a girl ofcourse.
What makes it harder for me to try and stop thinking about him is that we seem to be getting closer as friends and he always hugs me. They are just friendly hugs to him but they mean the world to me.
It used to be easy because I only seen him once a week at the youth club.
On Wednsday it was my first day of school. Me and my friend (the one who also likes him) were waiting for our other friend.
And guess who comes walking into school, the guy I like. He moved to our school over the summer and didn't tell anyone. So now I have to seem him every single day and act like im fine.
Any advice?
3. Three of my friends really like me. They are girls. I dont know what to tell them to get them off my back and I really dont want to tell them that I am gay.
Sorry for troubling you guys with all my problems. But I really do need advice.
Okay, so where do I start.
As all of you probably know, I am gay, although I'm still hiding in that dark little closet But thats not the problem.
A couple of close friends know that I am gay but thats about it.
Here are the things tha have really been bothering me and I would love some advice about:
1. My friends have been noticing lately that it has been LONG time since I have been with a girl. They keep trying to get me set up with girls and keep making jokes about how long it has been that I have been with one.
I keep telling them that its because I havn't met the right girl for me but they have heard that excuse too often.
I dont feel as though I can tell them that I am gay yet because Im not ready for that, I am happy with just a few people knowing at the moment.
So one problem is that I dont know what to tell my friends, as for them it would seem pretty weird that I havnt been interested in girls for years.
2. I really like a guy, problem is he is straight. It seems like every guy that I fall for is straight. I know that this will keep happening meaning that I will NEVER have a relationship.
The worst thing about me liking this guy is that my friend really likes him too and she is a girl ofcourse.
What makes it harder for me to try and stop thinking about him is that we seem to be getting closer as friends and he always hugs me. They are just friendly hugs to him but they mean the world to me.
It used to be easy because I only seen him once a week at the youth club.
On Wednsday it was my first day of school. Me and my friend (the one who also likes him) were waiting for our other friend.
And guess who comes walking into school, the guy I like. He moved to our school over the summer and didn't tell anyone. So now I have to seem him every single day and act like im fine.
Any advice?
3. Three of my friends really like me. They are girls. I dont know what to tell them to get them off my back and I really dont want to tell them that I am gay.
Sorry for troubling you guys with all my problems. But I really do need advice.