willowsummers
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Post by willowsummers on Mar 20, 2010 21:51:23 GMT -5
I always get attracted to guys who are totally incapable of feeling the same way about me. I, of course, don't know it. The last guy I thought was flirting with me. Guess I was too stupid to understand. lol The reason I say that is because apparently he's just too cool for someone like me. I care that I do a good job at work, I'm nice to people and I guess I don't already know everything. Oh god, big surprise! Who does? Problem is, I seem to get attracted to guys who are, how do I say this politely, not nice.  I, of course, don't think they're not nice or I wouldn't like them, but I eventually find out otherwise. Why is it so hard to find a guy who's intelligent AND nice, maybe even a little geeky? I want an Oz but if anybody sees one, let me know.  Over My Head by Fleetwood Mac You can take me to paradise, And then again you can be cold as ice I'm over my head, But it sure feels nice. You can take me anytime you like, I'll be around if you think you might love me baby, And hold me tight. Your mood is like a circus wheel, You're changing all the time, Sometimes I can't help but feel, That I'm wasting all of my time. Think I'm looking on the dark side, But everyday you hurt my pride, I'm over my head, But it sure feels nice, I'm over my head, But it sure feels nice. Help Me by Joni Mitchell Help me I think I'm falling In love again When I get that crazy feeling, I know I'm in trouble again I'm in trouble 'Cause you're a rambler and a gambler And a sweet-taIking-ladies man And you love your lovin' But not like you love your freedom Help me I think I'm falling In love too fast It's got me hoping for the future And worrying about the past 'Cause I've seen some hot hot blazes Come down to smoke and ash We love our lovin' But not like we love our freedom Didn't it feel good We were sitting there talking Or lying there not talking Didn't it feel good You dance with the lady With the hole in her stocking Didn't it feel good Didn't it feel good Help me I think I'm falling In love with you Are you going to let me go there by myself That's such a lonely thing to do Both of us flirting around Flirting and flirting Hurting too We love our lovin' But not like we love our freedom |
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Talkie Toaster
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Post by Talkie Toaster on Mar 20, 2010 22:44:44 GMT -5
Sorry, already taken  But don't give up, you'll find someone I'm sure (trust me it takes time) i was lucky in my search but it still took me 20 years to even get a girlfriend. |
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willowsummers
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Post by willowsummers on Mar 20, 2010 22:47:30 GMT -5
lol I love that response though. Thanks |
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Faith5byFive
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Post by Faith5byFive on Mar 21, 2010 6:11:22 GMT -5
Dont give up hope Lara, theres someone out there for everyone it seems the case is always somebody finds you when your not looking. If you look you end up meeting the wrong people most of the time. Im sure there is a OZ like guy out there for you and im sure one day he'll find you.
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willowsummers
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Post by willowsummers on Mar 21, 2010 10:08:35 GMT -5
Thanks Natalie. |
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Billie Erin
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Post by Billie Erin on Mar 21, 2010 10:12:43 GMT -5
Guys always seem to be either too detached and mean or too soppy and boring,my advice would be to just live your life and be yourself and one day you'll attract a guy whomaybe wouldn't have been one that you'd automatically be drawn to but he'll end up being your Mr Right |
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Post by whitecandy on Mar 21, 2010 10:15:51 GMT -5
I promise to send an Oz your way if I find one (but will try to get one without the full moon issues ) Natalie is right, it sounds like a cliche, but the right person will come along when you least expect it. I met my boyfriend almost 6 years ago when I was on a date with his housemate, and started dating him a few weeks later! I certainly wasn't expecting anything from a first date, let alone finding the love of my life with someone else |
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Post by Faith5byFive on Mar 21, 2010 10:40:32 GMT -5
Agreed with Billie & Lou (whitecandy) Maybe we should find the Dollhouse and get them to brainwash Seth Green into being OZ Minus the wolfy parts and you could live happily ever after  While we at it can we brainwash David Boreanaz too? |
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Post by lucifurl on Mar 21, 2010 10:47:43 GMT -5
lol this sounds a little drastic but totally doable...
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willowsummers
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Post by willowsummers on Mar 21, 2010 11:05:10 GMT -5
I don't know anything about what Seth Green is really like but I have always thought he was cute even before Buffy. I guess the finding someone you don't expect and when you least expect it seems like things I'm already doing but I still keep finding the "not nice" ones. lol Like I wasn't looking for the last two they just dropped in front of me and weren't what I'd usually like. It's hard to find people who are open and warm. Seems like they're mainly on here. |
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Post by Eric on Mar 21, 2010 14:08:35 GMT -5
Guys always seem to be either too detached and mean or too soppy and boring Well, you're just full of carrots and apples, aren't ya? |
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Jaz ♀♀
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Post by Jaz ♀♀ on Mar 21, 2010 14:18:12 GMT -5
Get a girlfriend. Problem solved. |
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willowsummers
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Post by willowsummers on Mar 21, 2010 17:45:46 GMT -5
Get a girlfriend. Problem solved. I've thought about it.  I was really wondering if anybody else had a hard time finding that combination. |
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Billie Erin
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Post by Billie Erin on Mar 22, 2010 13:14:18 GMT -5
Guys always seem to be either too detached and mean or too soppy and boring Well, you're just full of carrots and apples, aren't ya? I think I'd feel much perkier if we could brainwash James Marsters for me while we're at it? Dollhouse has been cancelled now so if we ask Joss nicely maybe he'd let us borrow the machinery . . . |
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The Girl In Question
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Post by The Girl In Question on Mar 22, 2010 16:48:09 GMT -5
Willowsummers, I have the exact same problems as you. You may or may not have seen my whiny post about my friend in the "What's up" thread, but the large part of that drama is that I'm in lurv with him, and he always changes his mind about how he feels. That always seems to happen to me. It seems you and I have the same taste in guys: geeky/sweet/but secretly not so nice (although my current not bf has every single quality I like in a guy, even the really obscure ones which makes it hard for me to move on). Let us go guy hunting together! You and me! And we can let each other know if the guys are good enough for us or not |
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Post by whitecandy on Mar 23, 2010 8:16:29 GMT -5
Well, you're just full of carrots and apples, aren't ya? I think I'd feel much perkier if we could brainwash James Marsters for me while we're at it? Dollhouse has been cancelled now so if we ask Joss nicely maybe he'd let us borrow the machinery . . . Please let me know if you get a hold of that machinery, so I can go and kidnap Marc Blucas.... |
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willowsummers
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Post by willowsummers on Mar 23, 2010 8:39:04 GMT -5
Willowsummers, I have the exact same problems as you. You may or may not have seen my whiny post about my friend in the "What's up" thread, but the large part of that drama is that I'm in lurv with him, and he always changes his mind about how he feels. That always seems to happen to me. It seems you and I have the same taste in guys: geeky/sweet/but secretly not so nice (although my current not bf has every single quality I like in a guy, even the really obscure ones which makes it hard for me to move on). Let us go guy hunting together! You and me! And we can let each other know if the guys are good enough for us or not I love that. Thanks Maybe one of these days we can. |
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Post by Eric on Mar 23, 2010 13:42:00 GMT -5
I think I'd feel much perkier if we could brainwash James Marsters for me while we're at it? Dollhouse has been cancelled now so if we ask Joss nicely maybe he'd let us borrow the machinery . . . Please let me know if you get a hold of that machinery, so I can go and kidnap Marc Blucas.... I call Fran Kranz! And maybe Emma Caulfield, to have on the side. |
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Post by wenxina on Mar 23, 2010 15:10:07 GMT -5
Pfft... Fran Kranz is in my basement! Good luck getting in there.
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Post by Eric on Mar 23, 2010 16:39:08 GMT -5
Pfft... Fran Kranz is in my basement! Good luck getting in there. Well, Eliza Dushku is in my attic, so I'll just program her to go kidnap him for me. Mwahahaha! |
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