Ok so i just finished reading the retreat paperback. Willow never even told Oz about Tara, or Kennedy. xander and Dawns relationship is flat out gross, like its not the age things, its just that he used to have a thing for her sister. Plus Dawn was more itneresting when she was shapeshiting due to the thrice-wise's spell. Now she's just boring. Like the tender moment of Buffy and Faith. I dont think all the war was necessary.but hey that's North American society for ya.
Oh interesting thing...when Oz's wife said that they gave them everything. The slayers completly took for granted that they were given paradise. i think we as humans are so caught up in the drama of life that we get upset when there are no problems around us. or maybe it is our past issues with power and feelings of weakness that really make us angry and bitter when we are presented with peace.