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Post by Angel Beast on Aug 7, 2010 22:36:44 GMT -5
I believe sex is an intimate and passionate experience between two people. I don't think people go shacking up with a bunch of people, not because of stds or anything, it just dampens the relations to me. I don't think you should wait till you're married but wait till you're ready. Me I have not had sex yet because I wasn't ready and haven't found the right girl to share that experience.
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Post by whitecandy on Aug 8, 2010 4:22:25 GMT -5
^^You have exactly the same views as my boyfriend, it is so refreshing to see a guy speak out like that and not be embarrassed and think they have to be a certain way *karma*
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Post by Iceeh★ on Aug 8, 2010 16:14:29 GMT -5
I... would probably be a total slut if I wasn't in a committed relationship, heh. I mostly view sex in the Anya-fashion, like Xi said.
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Post by Angel Beast on Aug 8, 2010 18:45:51 GMT -5
^^You have exactly the same views as my boyfriend, it is so refreshing to see a guy speak out like that and not be embarrassed and think they have to be a certain way *karma* I blame the show Boy Meets World for me being the way I am. I learned a lot about relationships from that show. Plus I've always had more female friends then I've had guy friends, which I think really affected my views cause if I had more guy friends I'd probably be what they call a 'player'. |
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Post by AngelFaith on Aug 8, 2010 20:21:00 GMT -5
I... would probably be a total slut if I wasn't in a committed relationship, heh. I mostly view sex in the Anya-fashion, like Xi said. Now, see, I HATE the word "slut". Girls are sluts, guys are "lucky", heroes, studs etc. Double standards suck. People who hear my numbers or listen to my views on sex tend to think of me as a slut, but I'm not! Kinda sucks. |
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Post by Skytteflickan88 on Aug 8, 2010 20:38:38 GMT -5
I... would probably be a total slut if I wasn't in a committed relationship, heh. I mostly view sex in the Anya-fashion, like Xi said. Now, see, I HATE the word "slut". Girls are sluts, guys are "lucky", heroes, studs etc. Double standards suck. People who hear my numbers or listen to my views on sex tend to think of me as a slut, but I'm not! Kinda sucks. I think your "husband" is a slut. Does that help?  |
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Post by Eric on Aug 8, 2010 20:52:27 GMT -5
Now, see, I HATE the word "slut". Girls are sluts, guys are "lucky", heroes, studs etc. Double standards suck. People who hear my numbers or listen to my views on sex tend to think of me as a slut, but I'm not! Kinda sucks. I think your "husband" is a slut. Does that help? Sky, just when I think we're getting along, you start up again with these hurtful lies. Stop! |
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Post by AngelFaith on Aug 8, 2010 21:04:33 GMT -5
^^ Don't worry, Hon, we can be slutty together. I get branded no matter what, you just learn to live with it.
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Post by drgreenevil on Aug 8, 2010 22:43:54 GMT -5
I... would probably be a total slut if I wasn't in a committed relationship, heh. I mostly view sex in the Anya-fashion, like Xi said. Now, see, I HATE the word "slut". Girls are sluts, guys are "lucky", heroes, studs etc. Double standards suck. People who hear my numbers or listen to my views on sex tend to think of me as a slut, but I'm not! Kinda sucks. Idk. I think the idea of a guy being a "manwhore" is starting to come into acceptance and relevance. That now even guys can't just sleep around like crazy and be heralded for it. If it wasn't for my conscience, issues, ocds, paranoias, etc, I'd probably be a huge manwhore. Waiting for marriage is the best way. Just saves you so much heartache. And I also agree with the people that say kids should not be exposed to it until way later. I knew so many people in highschool that lost it, and then regretted it very soon after. Like the next day after!!!! |
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Post by Eric on Aug 8, 2010 22:57:05 GMT -5
If I were a woman, I'd be such a slut.
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Post by BlueJay on Aug 8, 2010 23:28:10 GMT -5
I equate sex and love. Things like casual sex, pornography, prostitution, etc make my brain hurt. Typically, I don't care to get involved in other people's business, but I personally don't respect people who have promiscuous unprotected sex with random people and think it's okay. I also stay clear of people who have sex on their mind all the time, like dogs that want to hump on everything that moves. Personally, I want to have sex with someone that I am willing to stay with for the long hull and vice versa.
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Post by VampSlayer on Aug 8, 2010 23:44:11 GMT -5
Hmm...
IMO, sex is really just an action. Something you do. Sure, it's probably better to do it with someone you know and trust, but it's all the same; Just sex.
I wouldn't judge anyone for their views on sex, though. If you want to wait until you're married and in love, that's great. If you wanna go out and get some right now, have fun. But really, married sex or casual sex is the same thing. Sex. You both do the same things, maybe a bit differently, but it's referred to as sex either way.
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Post by The Girl In Question on Aug 9, 2010 0:03:49 GMT -5
For me, sex is something I'm not having. I'm one of those wait-until-marriage people. I'm actually glad there are others on here because I only know one person like that in real life (ironically, I would totally frak this person, married or not--TMI? Lol). People tend not to understand this way of thinking, but I'm glad there are people on this thread that do.
I don't really care what anyone else does with their sex life, it's your own business (except protection--which is everyone you sleep with's business). I personally, could not have sex with someone I do not have deep feelings for. Sex means a whole lot of things, but for me, it's not going to happen with someone unless I'm in love, or close to in love with that person. I've actually tried to entertain the thought of just sleeping with people who I thought were really attractive, but didn't care for, and it sincerely grossed me out.
Oh, and I'm not sure if it matters, but for observation's sake I'll say that I'm also a "Jesus-follower."
And AngelFaith, I refer to many "lucky" guys as sluts.
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Post by The Night Lord on Aug 9, 2010 2:31:19 GMT -5
heh, I can't even be a manwhore if I wanted to be...I'm terrible at picking up. Plus, right now, I'm in the avoiding mode
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Post by Skytteflickan88 on Aug 9, 2010 8:52:52 GMT -5
Typically, I don't care to get involved in other people's business, but I personally don't respect people who have promiscuous unprotected sex with random people and think it's okay. Do you show that you don't respect them, or is it a silent hidden disrespect? [Not trying to start a fight.] |
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Post by Scarygothgirl on Aug 9, 2010 10:07:46 GMT -5
^I dn't respect people who are highly promiscuous but I don't show it. Everyone's human so everyone will have aspects that I agree and disagree with, so I try not to let my views alter the way I treat people.
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Post by Billie Erin on Aug 9, 2010 15:54:22 GMT -5
Now, see, I HATE the word "slut". Girls are sluts, guys are "lucky", heroes, studs etc. Double standards suck. People who hear my numbers or listen to my views on sex tend to think of me as a slut, but I'm not! Kinda sucks. Idk. I think the idea of a guy being a "manwhore" is starting to come into acceptance and relevance. That now even guys can't just sleep around like crazy and be heralded for it. It's coming into existence a little bit here and there but it's still more widely accepted that girls who sleep around are slutsand whores whereas guys are players or lucky. The world's still very sexist. |
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Post by Eric on Aug 9, 2010 16:06:42 GMT -5
Is it just me, or does every single girl on SlayAlive just love crying "sexism"? I don't know why girls are so sensitive to the word "slut" considering it a word most often used by girls when they want to insult another girl.
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Post by Skytteflickan88 on Aug 9, 2010 16:10:52 GMT -5
Is it just me, or does every single girl on SlayAlive just love crying "sexism"? I don't know why girls are so sensitive to the word "slut" considering it a word most often used by girls when they want to insult another girl. I was going to stay out of it, but I want to point out that girls who call girls slut, but who don't call men something equally insulting if they sleep around, are technically also sexist. In case you hadn't considered it. -EDIT Also, people who generalize seem ignorant/stupid. Don't drag the family name in the mud, twin.   |
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Post by Randi Giles on Aug 9, 2010 16:12:57 GMT -5
Is it just me, or does every single girl on SlayAlive just love crying "sexism"? I don't know why girls are so sensitive to the word "slut" considering it a word most often used by girls when they want to insult another girl. I don't care I call everybody slut's, skanks and ho's. Male or female. It's just how I roll.  |
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